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r/AITAH↗

A place to ask if you were, in fact, the asshole in a particular situation. Posts must ask for judgment in a conflict between two or more people, or a reasonable expectation of a conflict for hypothetical posts. AITAH is a judgment sub, not an advice sub. No AI, period. See the wiki for more specifics.

7.6M subscribers8,292 posts / mo in Sep 20267,149 authors / mosince 2021

r/AITAH has 7.6M members (+12% over the last 12 months). It gets about 8,292 posts a month from 7,149 people. Top topics: Parental Conflicts, Best Friendships and Divorce Decisions.

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Size and growth

How r/AITAH has grown

r/AITAH

Subscriber growth

Subscribers over time

+12%in 12 months · +1.8% in 3 months · +0.2% in 1 month
Oct 20267.6M
Growing7.6M subscribers
  • no data — drawn from 0 at creation (Mar 2021)
Live · through Oct 2026
r/AITAH

Monthly activity

Posts, comments and authors per month

−58%vs Sep 2025 · −32% last 3 months vs the 3 before
Sep 20268.3k
QuieterPeaked at 26k in May 2025
Data through Sep 2026 · October usually lands mid-November

What people talk about

Topics and brands on r/AITAH

Top topics

Share of the subreddit's posts

  1. Parental Conflicts0.4%
  2. Best Friendships0.3%
  3. Divorce Decisions0.3%
  4. AITAH Confessions0.3%
  5. AITA for Marital Issues0.3%

Brands people mention

Most-mentioned brands and sites, last 12 months

  1. love is respect
  2. Crisis Text Line
  3. Child Helpline International
  4. Wolfram
  5. Substack

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Posts and activity for Sep 2026. Members from Reddit's subscriber counts. Read from the same data the app runs on. Our research