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Am I the Asshole?

A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!

24.7M subscribers9,049 posts / mo in Sep 20268,042 authors / mosince 2013

r/AmItheAsshole has 24.7M members (+2.6% over the last 12 months). It gets about 9,049 posts a month from 8,042 people. Top topics: AITA Friend Situations, Food and Family Conflicts and AITA with Dad?.

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How r/AmItheAsshole has grown

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Subscriber growth

Subscribers over time

+2.6%in 12 months · +0.6% in 3 months · +0.1% in 1 month
Oct 202624.6M
Growing24.6M subscribers
Data since Mar 2018Live · through Oct 2026
r/AmItheAsshole

Monthly activity

Posts, comments and authors per month

−12%vs Sep 2025 · −4.6% last 3 months vs the 3 before
Sep 20269k
QuieterPeaked at 53k in Jul 2022
Data through Sep 2026 · October usually lands mid-November

What people talk about

Topics and brands on r/AmItheAsshole

Top topics

Share of the subreddit's posts

  1. AITA Friend Situations0.8%
  2. Food and Family Conflicts0.6%
  3. AITA with Dad?0.6%
  4. AITA Money Issues with Parents0.6%
  5. Sisterly Conflicts0.5%

Brands people mention

Most-mentioned brands and sites, last 12 months

  1. love is respect
  2. Substack
  3. Merriam-Webster
  4. TikTok
  5. CDC

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Posts and activity for Sep 2026. Members from Reddit's subscriber counts. Read from the same data the app runs on. Our research