r/AsOneAfterInfidelity↗
Recovering as one after infidelity
AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.
128k subscribers655 posts / mo in Sep 2026 (incl. <1% by known bots)422 authors / mosince 2018
r/AsOneAfterInfidelity has 128k members (+17% over the last 12 months). It gets about 655 posts a month from 422 people. Top topics: Cheating and Its Consequences, WifeCheatingUpdate and Heartbreak Stories.
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Share of the subreddit's posts
- Cheating and Its Consequences0.2%
- WifeCheatingUpdate0.1%
- Heartbreak Stories<0.1%
- Phone Snoops & Cheating Suspicions<0.1%
- Pain and Poetry<0.1%
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Most-mentioned brands and sites, last 12 months
- Affair Recovery
- Apple
- Spotify
- Surviving Infidelity
- Sex and Relationship Healing
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