r/AvoidantAttachment↗
To post here, read the pinned post, do NOT message the moderators. To keep this a safe space for avoidant attachers, this subreddit is strictly moderated. Please review the subreddit rules prior to participating to ensure this subreddit remains on topic. For those who do not have an avoidant attachment style looking for answers, there is a wealth of information for you available by keyword searching "FAQ." Non-avoidant participation is limited and enforced. Please respect our space.
63k subscribers31 posts / mo in Sep 2026 (incl. ~42% by known bots)16 authors / mosince 2020
r/AvoidantAttachment has 63k members (+30% over the last 12 months). It gets about 31 posts a month from 16 people. Top topics: Best Friendships, Love and Affection and INTP/INFJ Emotions.
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- Best Friendships0.1%
- Love and Affection<0.1%
- INTP/INFJ Emotions<0.1%
- Pain and Poetry<0.1%
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