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Avoidant Breakups

A support community for those recovering from a breakup with a Fearful or Dismissive Avoidant

35k subscribers3,444 posts / mo in Sep 20262,198 authors / mosince 2024

r/AvoidantBreakUps has 35k members (+277% over the last 12 months). It gets about 3,444 posts a month from 2,198 people. Top topics: Heartbreak Stories, Ex Breakups and Apology and Forgiveness.

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Size and growth

How r/AvoidantBreakUps has grown

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Subscriber growth

Subscribers over time

+277%in 12 months · +21% in 3 months · +4.3% in 1 month
Oct 202635k
Growing35k subscribers
Live · through Oct 2026
r/AvoidantBreakUps

Monthly activity

Posts, comments and authors per month

+137%vs Sep 2025 · +6.7% last 3 months vs the 3 before
Sep 20263.4k
BusierPeaked at 3.7k in Aug 2026
Data through Sep 2026 · October usually lands mid-November

What people talk about

Topics and brands on r/AvoidantBreakUps

Top topics

Share of the subreddit's posts

  1. Heartbreak Stories0.3%
  2. Ex Breakups0.1%
  3. Apology and Forgiveness0.1%
  4. Love Debates0.1%
  5. Ex Relationships and Emotions0.1%

Brands people mention

Most-mentioned brands and sites, last 12 months

  1. TikTok
  2. Spotify
  3. Wolfram
  4. Medium
  5. FreeToAttach

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Posts and activity for Sep 2026. Members from Reddit's subscriber counts. Read from the same data the app runs on. Our research