r/BDSMAdvice↗
A place for advice on topics relating to BDSM.
A warm, diverse, inclusive group of friendly, knowledgeable, kinky people. Here to provide assistance, education & relationship advice. If you're looking for graphic content, or overtly sexual material, we're not the place for you. Have an issue in your kinky relationship? Want to know more about a specific technique? Think you have a fetish, but don't know what to call it? You're not alone. Ask us.
501k subscribers885 posts / mo in Sep 2026786 authors / mosince 2015
r/BDSMAdvice has 501k members (+10% over the last 12 months). It gets about 885 posts a month from 786 people. Top topics: Smut & FMC Stories, LGBTQ Bars and Meetups and Pet Gear.
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- Smut & FMC Stories0.1%
- LGBTQ Bars and Meetups0.1%
- Pet Gear<0.1%
- Dog Toys & Chews<0.1%
- Dog Training<0.1%
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- love is respect
- etsy
- Scarleteen
- Brain Injury Association of America
- Wiley
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