r/BPDlovedones↗
Support for nonBPDs to make sense of their abusive relationship with someone who has BPD
"r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of an abusive person with borderline personality disorder (BPD).
151k subscribers1,970 posts / mo in Sep 2026 (incl. ~2% by known bots)1,235 authors / mosince 2014
r/BPDlovedones has 151k members (+28% over the last 12 months). It gets about 1,970 posts a month from 1,235 people. Top topics: BPD Discussions, Ex Breakups and Heartbreak Stories.
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- BPD Discussions0.2%
- Ex Breakups0.1%
- Heartbreak Stories0.1%
- Goodbye Letters and Letting Go<0.1%
- Pain and Poetry<0.1%
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- Simple Page
- Spotify
- Medium
- Substack
- Psych Central
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