r/Fencesitter↗
To parent or to not parent. That is the question.
A safe place for those who aren't sure whether they want to have kids, or not. Post and share stories for both sides, questions you may have, and anything else you can think of (applicable to the subject at hand).
93k subscribers302 posts / mo in Sep 2026280 authors / mosince 2015
r/Fencesitter has 93k members (+22% over the last 12 months). It gets about 302 posts a month from 280 people. Top topics: Working Moms, Dog Family Issues and Parenting Issues.
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Top topics
Share of the subreddit's posts
- Working Moms0.2%
- Dog Family Issues0.2%
- Parenting Issues0.2%
- Puppy Adolescence Blues0.1%
- Parenting Debates0.1%
Brands people mention
Most-mentioned brands and sites, last 12 months
- The Rumpus
- Substack
- Plancpills
- PregnancyOptions
- Wolfram
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