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Support for victims of infidelity

Welcome to the Infidelity subreddit. We're sorry circumstances have brought you to us, but glad we can offer support. This is a place for those struggling with infidelity to ask questions and seek guidance. There can be great comfort in not carrying this burden alone. Our support is focused on the victims, so if you are the perpetrator of infidelity then participate with care. Please read our rules before posting.

144k subscribers729 posts / mo in Sep 2026604 authors / mosince 2009

r/Infidelity has 144k members (+16% over the last 12 months). It gets about 729 posts a month from 604 people. Top topics: Cheating and Its Consequences, WifeCheatingUpdate and Phone Snoops & Cheating Suspicions.

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Size and growth

How r/Infidelity has grown

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Subscriber growth

Subscribers over time

+16%in 12 months · +2.9% in 3 months · +0.7% in 1 month
Oct 2026144k
Growing144k subscribers
Data since Mar 2018Live · through Oct 2026
r/Infidelity

Monthly activity

Posts, comments and authors per month

−18%vs Sep 2025 · −7.7% last 3 months vs the 3 before
Sep 2026729
QuieterPeaked at 1.1k in Jan 2026
Data through Sep 2026 · October usually lands mid-November

What people talk about

Topics and brands on r/Infidelity

Top topics

Share of the subreddit's posts

  1. Cheating and Its Consequences0.3%
  2. WifeCheatingUpdate0.3%
  3. Phone Snoops & Cheating Suspicions0.2%
  4. Friendship Cheats0.1%
  5. Cheating Relationships0.1%

Brands people mention

Most-mentioned brands and sites, last 12 months

  1. Spokeo
  2. Affair Recovery
  3. Surviving Infidelity
  4. Talkspace
  5. Emotional Affair Journey

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Posts and activity for Sep 2026. Members from Reddit's subscriber counts. Read from the same data the app runs on. Our research