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Life After Narcissism

A place for those who were raised by a narcissist and now have the needed boundaries in place for safety and sanity. This is a group for people who are no longer engaging with abusers - this does not necessarily mean no contact. It means that you longer engage in the toxic dynamics with abusers. This group is meant as a next step after /r/raisedbynarcissists.

83k subscribers240 posts / mo in Sep 2026206 authors / mosince 2014

r/LifeAfterNarcissism has 83k members (+20% over the last 12 months). It gets about 240 posts a month from 206 people. Top topics: Narcissistic Bosses, Pain and Poetry and Books After Breakups.

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Subscriber growth

Subscribers over time

+20%in 12 months · +3.1% in 3 months · +0.5% in 1 month
Oct 202683k
Growing83k subscribers
Data since Mar 2018Live · through Oct 2026
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Monthly activity

Posts, comments and authors per month

−34%vs Sep 2025 · −23% last 3 months vs the 3 before
Sep 2026240
QuieterPeaked at 754 in Mar 2026
Data through Sep 2026 · October usually lands mid-November

What people talk about

Topics and brands on r/LifeAfterNarcissism

Top topics

Share of the subreddit's posts

  1. Narcissistic Bosses0.6%
  2. Pain and Poetry<0.1%
  3. Books After Breakups<0.1%
  4. Heartbreak Stories<0.1%
  5. Support Groups<0.1%

Brands people mention

Most-mentioned brands and sites, last 12 months

  1. Medium
  2. Meetup
  3. Substack
  4. CoDA
  5. Wolfram

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