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OkCupid on reddit

263k subscribers130 posts / mo in Sep 2026115 authors / mosince 2009

r/OkCupid has 263k members (+3.5% over the last 12 months). It gets about 130 posts a month from 115 people. Top topics: Reddit Meets, Messages and Message Conflicts.

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Size and growth

How r/OkCupid has grown

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Subscriber growth

Subscribers over time

+3.5%in 12 months · +0.6% in 3 months · +0.2% in 1 month
Oct 2026263k
Growing263k subscribers
Data since Mar 2018Live · through Oct 2026
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Monthly activity

Posts, comments and authors per month

−14%vs Sep 2025 · −16% last 3 months vs the 3 before
Sep 2026130
QuieterPeaked at 524 in Jul 2022
Data through Sep 2026 · October usually lands mid-November

What people talk about

Topics and brands on r/OkCupid

Top topics

Share of the subreddit's posts

  1. Reddit Meets0.5%
  2. Messages0.2%
  3. Message Conflicts0.2%
  4. SaysMeaningSays0.1%
  5. Date Night0.1%

Brands people mention

Most-mentioned brands and sites, last 12 months

  1. Match
  2. Zendesk
  3. Apple
  4. ScienceDirect
  5. Change

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Posting rules and account requirements, how often posts get removed, who writes here (age, gender, countries), what people ask for, how they talk, and related subreddits — all in the full report.

Posts and activity for Sep 2026. Members from Reddit's subscriber counts. Read from the same data the app runs on. Our research