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Welcome to the Romance for Men community! Romance for men (RFM) is romance, defined broadly, that speaks to the male perspective. This community is for discussion of all romance a guy might read, but caters to RFM in particular. Whether it is purely romance or merely a large romance subplot aimed at men, this is where it belongs! Recommendations and discussion from all genres are welcome as long as they contain some form of romance plot that men will enjoy.

20k subscribers166 posts / mo in Sep 2026 (incl. ~5% by known bots)121 authors / mosince 2022

r/Romance_for_men has 20k members (+70% over the last 12 months). It gets about 166 posts a month from 121 people. Top topics: Harem Romance, FMC/MMC Dynamics and Romance & Fantasy.

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Subscriber growth

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+70%in 12 months · +10% in 3 months · +3.5% in 1 month
Oct 202619k
Growing19k subscribers
  • no data — drawn from 0 at creation (Nov 2022)
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Monthly activity

Posts, comments and authors per month

+48%vs Sep 2025 · +2.7% last 3 months vs the 3 before
Sep 2026166
BusierPeaked at 230 in Jul 2026
Sep 2026: incl. ~5% by known botsData through Sep 2026 · October usually lands mid-November

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Top topics

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  1. Harem Romance6.2%
  2. FMC/MMC Dynamics6.1%
  3. Romance & Fantasy6.1%
  4. Werewolf Romance5.1%
  5. Ebooks & Audiobooks5.0%

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