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Self Hate

You are loved! This is a support community for anyone who suffers from any form of self hate, depression, self harm, loneliness, etc.

13k subscribers859 posts / mo in Sep 2026729 authors / mosince 2013

r/SelfHate has 13k members (+41% over the last 12 months). It gets about 859 posts a month from 729 people. Top topics: Failed Exams & Feelings, Pain and Poetry and Suicide-Thoughts.

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Size and growth

How r/SelfHate has grown

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Subscriber growth

Subscribers over time

+41%in 12 months · +11% in 3 months
Oct 202613k
Growing13k subscribers
Data since Mar 2018Live · through Oct 2026
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Monthly activity

Posts, comments and authors per month

+887%vs Sep 2025 · +99% last 3 months vs the 3 before
Sep 2026859
BusierPeaked at 1.1k in Jul 2026
Data through Sep 2026 · October usually lands mid-November

What people talk about

Topics and brands on r/SelfHate

Top topics

Share of the subreddit's posts

  1. Failed Exams & Feelings0.4%
  2. Pain and Poetry0.2%
  3. Suicide-Thoughts0.2%
  4. Career Struggles0.1%
  5. MotivationBoosting0.1%

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Posting rules and account requirements, how often posts get removed, who writes here (age, gender, countries), what people ask for, how they talk, and related subreddits — all in the full report.

Posts and activity for Sep 2026. Members from Reddit's subscriber counts. Read from the same data the app runs on. Our research