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r/datingadviceformen↗

Dating advice for men seeking women

A subreddit for guys to exchange advice, success stories, get over rejection, or just play with ideas for attracting and interacting with women on both a physical and emotional level.

58k subscribers2,410 posts / mo in Sep 20261,999 authors / mosince 2012

r/datingadviceformen has 58k members (+77% over the last 12 months). It gets about 2,410 posts a month from 1,999 people. Top topics: Dating and Meetups, Height Matters and SaysMeaningSays.

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Size and growth

How r/datingadviceformen has grown

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Subscriber growth

Subscribers over time

+77%in 12 months · +18% in 3 months · +4.8% in 1 month
Oct 202657k
Growing57k subscribers
Data since Mar 2018Live · through Oct 2026
r/datingadviceformen

Monthly activity

Posts, comments and authors per month

+491%vs Sep 2025 · +70% last 3 months vs the 3 before
Sep 20262.4k
BusierPeaked at 2.4k in Sep 2026
Data through Sep 2026 · October usually lands mid-November

What people talk about

Topics and brands on r/datingadviceformen

Top topics

Share of the subreddit's posts

  1. Dating and Meetups0.4%
  2. Height Matters0.2%
  3. SaysMeaningSays0.2%
  4. Date Outfit Advice0.2%
  5. Flirting Signs0.1%

Brands people mention

Most-mentioned brands and sites, last 12 months

  1. Substack
  2. Wikihow
  3. Medium
  4. ChatGPT
  5. Stanford University

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