r/datingoverforty↗
Where nobody -- but everybody -- looks their age.
This is a place to ask questions in order to receive advice regarding your dating and relationships over 40 (not marriage or marriage-equivalent relationships); it is not a place to look for dates or mates. We intend to be positive about dating, sex, and relationships over 40, and that includes being positive or at least civil towards all genders and life stages.
213k subscribers909 posts / mo in Sep 2026 (incl. ~1% by known bots)715 authors / mosince 2018
r/datingoverforty has 213k members (+32% over the last 12 months). It gets about 909 posts a month from 715 people. Top topics: Dating and Meetups, Dating and Money and Dating Events.
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- Dating and Meetups0.8%
- Dating and Money0.1%
- Dating Events<0.1%
- Date Outfit Advice<0.1%
- Making Adult Friends<0.1%
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- Match
- Meetup
- Medium
- Tenor
- CoDA
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