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r/datingoverthirty↗

Dating Over 30: Because dating is hard, no matter how old you are.

A subreddit for folks nearing or over 30 who are looking for dating advice.

1.2M subscribers1,114 posts / mo in Sep 2026 (incl. ~3% by known bots)923 authors / mosince 2014

r/datingoverthirty has 1.2M members (+3.9% over the last 12 months). It gets about 1,114 posts a month from 923 people. Top topics: Dating and Meetups, Dating and Money and Date Nights and Places.

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Size and growth

How r/datingoverthirty has grown

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Subscriber growth

Subscribers over time

+3.9%in 12 months · +0.8% in 3 months · +0.2% in 1 month
Oct 20261.2M
Growing1.2M subscribers
Data since Mar 2018Live · through Oct 2026
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Monthly activity

Posts, comments and authors per month

−14%vs Sep 2025 · −7.9% last 3 months vs the 3 before
Sep 20261.1k
QuieterPeaked at 2.5k in Jan 2022
Sep 2026: incl. ~3% by known botsData through Sep 2026 · October usually lands mid-November

What people talk about

Topics and brands on r/datingoverthirty

Top topics

Share of the subreddit's posts

  1. Dating and Meetups0.4%
  2. Dating and Money0.1%
  3. Date Nights and Places<0.1%
  4. Single Life & Relationships<0.1%
  5. Reddit Meets<0.1%

Brands people mention

Most-mentioned brands and sites, last 12 months

  1. Tenor
  2. Apple
  3. Telegram
  4. Medium
  5. Substack

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