r/demisexuality↗
When asexuality doesn't fit.
A subreddit about demisexuality. A demisexual is a person who may experience sexual attraction but only after forming a strong emotional connection with someone. It's all a spectrum. Some demisexuals may feel very close to asexuality and experience attraction to extremely few people in their entire lifetimes, and each may take a very long time to develop, while others may find attraction develops more frequently and often find themselves crushing on their friends.
119k subscribers283 posts / mo in Sep 2026 (incl. <1% by known bots)254 authors / mosince 2010
r/demisexuality has 119k members (+12% over the last 12 months). It gets about 283 posts a month from 254 people. Top topics: Writing LGBT+ Characters, Romance & Fantasy and Dating and Meetups.
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- Writing LGBT+ Characters<0.1%
- Romance & Fantasy<0.1%
- Dating and Meetups<0.1%
- Flirting Signs<0.1%
- Romance Recommendations<0.1%
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- LGBTQIA+ Wiki
- Meetup
- Qualtrics
- Medium
- Urban Dictionary
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