r/limerence↗
Limerence: Support and Information
Limerence is a term invented by the psychologist Dorothy Tennov for her book "Love and Limerence", to describe the state of being madly in love or intensely infatuated when reciprocation is uncertain. This sub is a community of people who self-identify as being in the state of limerence and are looking for support and strategies to deal with it.
97k subscribers878 posts / mo in Sep 2026 (incl. <1% by known bots)657 authors / mosince 2011
r/limerence has 97k members (+33% over the last 12 months). It gets about 878 posts a month from 657 people. Top topics: Spotify Playlists, Work Crushes and Workplace Dynamics.
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- Spotify Playlists0.3%
- Work Crushes<0.1%
- Workplace Dynamics<0.1%
- Pain and Poetry<0.1%
- Heartbreak Stories<0.1%
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- TIME
- Fortune
- PsyPost
- BPS
- CoDA
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