r/theotherwoman↗
For affair dynamic where one person is single and the other is married/attached.
This is a non-judgemental place for the affair dynamic of a single WOMAN or MAN in an affair with a married/attached by marriage person. Here, you can discuss your experiences being the other person or occasionally a married person and seek help from those who are going through and/or have gone through being part of an affair. NOTE: Our sub DOES NOT cater to affair dynamics stemming from sex work, prostitution, sugaring, etc.
43k subscribers280 posts / mo in Sep 2026189 authors / mosince 2013
r/theotherwoman has 43k members (+49% over the last 12 months). It gets about 280 posts a month from 189 people. Top topics: Heartbreak Stories, Goodbye Letters and Letting Go and Pain and Poetry.
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- Heartbreak Stories0.2%
- Goodbye Letters and Letting Go0.2%
- Pain and Poetry0.1%
- Cheating Relationships0.1%
- MGMT Songs0.1%
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