Top Gender & Sexual Orientation subreddits

Largest Gender & Sexual Orientation subreddits

Largest Gender & Sexual Orientation subreddits

#	Subreddit	Members	12-mo growth	Commenters / mo
1	r/TwoXChromosomes	13.73M	+0.9%	35,966
2	r/lgbt	1.31M	+8.2%	13,767
3	r/everymanshouldknow	1.01M	+0.8%	96
4	r/WitchesVsPatriarchy	837,851	+4.9%	3,553
5	r/askgaybros	783,964	+36%	32,301
6	r/bisexual	725,824	+14%	7,775
7	r/trans	720,815	+16%	9,004
8	r/actuallesbians	673,551	+15%	12,294
9	r/gaybros	544,874	+14%	4,276
10	r/gay	501,569	+12%	4,768
11	r/crossdressing	464,401	+23%	6,877
12	r/AreTheStraightsOK	463,329	+3.9%	3,704
13	r/asktransgender	431,991	+15%	9,775
14	r/MtF	421,951	+25%	11,736
15	r/SapphoAndHerFriend	403,394	+2.4%	355
16	r/LesbianActually	400,698	+20%	9,626
17	r/feminineboys	384,813	+21%	4,414
18	r/TwoXIndia	372,518	+9.1%	2,967
19	r/egg_irl	365,792	+6.4%	4,594
20	r/me_irlgbt	365,373	+1.4%	1,038
21	r/bi_irl	357,930	+3.3%	2,254
22	r/ftm	327,695	+15%	9,711
23	r/gaybrosgonemild	324,381	+16%	5,301
24	r/NonBinary	313,839	+13%	5,511
25	r/transtimelines	308,680	+15%	3,192

Fastest growing Gender & Sexual Orientation subreddits

Member growth over 12 months, among subreddits that had at least 18,251 members a year ago.

Fastest growing Gender & Sexual Orientation subreddits

#	Subreddit	12-mo growth	Members gained	Members	Commenters / mo
1	r/StraightTransGirls	+155%	+31,605	52,044	1,413
2	r/4tran4	+154%	+30,159	49,792	5,171
3	r/AskIndianMen	+120%	+97,882	179,385	4,681
4	r/gayfriendfinder	+95%	+28,557	58,606	2,219
5	r/LGBTindia	+87%	+24,591	53,003	2,298
6	r/lesbiangang	+82%	+20,401	45,352	2,184
7	r/StraightFemboys	+80%	+27,150	61,183	804
8	r/transfem	+75%	+15,761	36,700	1,448
9	r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians	+64%	+20,523	52,723	3,751
10	T r/TransGoth	+58%	+21,046	57,611	818
11	r/Tomboys	+56%	+12,942	36,195	141
12	r/WLW	+53%	+22,410	64,853	1,377
13	r/GayMen	+51%	+27,132	80,365	2,227
14	r/ActualLesbiansOver25	+51%	+19,080	56,621	2,388
15	r/lesbianr4r	+49%	+15,981	48,758	400
16	r/gayrelationships	+48%	+9,864	30,374	456
17	r/onexindia	+45%	+9,786	31,441	766
18	r/honesttransgender	+44%	+13,819	45,152	835
19	r/nycgaybros	+43%	+12,100	40,250	1,715
20	r/4tran	+40%	+9,331	32,552	955
21	r/GayBroTeens	+40%	+16,931	59,179	1,783
22	r/germantrans	+38%	+9,327	33,714	1,864
23	P r/phlgbt	+38%	+17,460	63,735	1,380
24	r/ForeverAloneWomen	+37%	+11,787	43,265	430
25	r/TransMasc	+36%	+16,808	62,875	3,572

Most members gained

Gender & Sexual Orientation subreddits that gained the most members

#	Subreddit	Members gained	12-mo growth	Members	Commenters / mo
1	r/askgaybros	+205,902	+36%	783,964	32,301
2	r/TwoXChromosomes	+120,806	+0.9%	13.73M	35,966
3	r/trans	+101,705	+16%	720,815	9,004
4	r/lgbt	+98,377	+8.2%	1.31M	13,767
5	r/AskIndianMen	+97,882	+120%	179,385	4,681
6	r/actuallesbians	+88,898	+15%	673,551	12,294
7	r/bisexual	+88,779	+14%	725,824	7,775
8	r/crossdressing	+85,385	+23%	464,401	6,877
9	r/MtF	+83,527	+25%	421,951	11,736
10	r/gaybros	+68,761	+14%	544,874	4,276
11	r/feminineboys	+68,008	+21%	384,813	4,414
12	r/LesbianActually	+66,560	+20%	400,698	9,626
13	r/asktransgender	+56,946	+15%	431,991	9,775
14	r/gay	+52,731	+12%	501,569	4,768
15	r/women	+51,317	+26%	245,958	6,203
16	r/gaybrosgonemild	+45,249	+16%	324,381	5,301
17	r/ftm	+43,050	+15%	327,695	9,711
18	r/transtimelines	+40,784	+15%	308,680	3,192
19	r/AskGaybrosOver30	+40,314	+30%	172,675	3,785
20	r/WitchesVsPatriarchy	+39,416	+4.9%	837,851	3,553
21	r/TransLater	+36,950	+32%	151,825	4,549
22	r/NonBinary	+35,364	+13%	313,839	5,511
23	T r/transpassing	+32,415	+22%	177,849	3,568
24	r/StraightTransGirls	+31,605	+155%	52,044	1,413
25	r/asexuality	+31,188	+13%	277,033	5,065

Most active Gender & Sexual Orientation subreddits

People who comment in a month, the average of the three months ending September 2026.

Most active Gender & Sexual Orientation subreddits

#	Subreddit	Commenters / mo	Posts / mo	Members
1	r/TwoXChromosomes	35,966	3,382	13.73M
2	r/askgaybros	32,301	14,177	783,964
3	r/gayselfie	18,677	8,932	73,561
4	r/lgbt	13,767	5,260	1.31M
5	r/actuallesbians	12,294	4,727	673,551
6	r/MtF	11,736	5,355	421,951
7	r/countttt	11,407	5,335	47,728
8	r/transmanlifehacks	10,891	1,103	40,712
9	r/asktransgender	9,775	4,601	431,991
10	r/ftm	9,711	4,007	327,695
11	r/LesbianActually	9,626	3,843	400,698
12	r/trans	9,004	5,362	720,815
13	r/bisexual	7,775	2,634	725,824
14	r/crossdressing	6,877	3,870	464,401
15	r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2	6,379	1,190	126,907
16	r/women	6,203	2,590	245,958
17	r/NonBinary	5,511	1,782	313,839
18	r/gaybrosgonemild	5,301	3,452	324,381
19	r/4tran4	5,171	13,761	49,792
20	r/asexuality	5,065	1,440	277,033
21	r/gay	4,768	1,082	501,569
22	r/AskIndianMen	4,681	3,073	179,385
23	r/egg_irl	4,594	1,093	365,792
24	r/TransLater	4,549	1,788	151,825
25	r/feminineboys	4,414	2,162	384,813

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