Top Relationships subreddits

Largest Relationships subreddits

Largest Relationships subreddits

#	Subreddit	Members	12-mo growth	Commenters / mo
1	r/socialskills	6.37M	+1.4%	3,456
2	r/relationships	3.77M	+4.4%	20,973
3	r/introvert	2.87M	+1.8%	5,832
4	r/MakeNewFriendsHere	1.18M	+31%	27,461
5	r/GiftIdeas	589,895	+18%	4,190
6	r/Needafriend	585,964	+24%	7,571
7	r/texts	547,873	+25%	64,742
8	r/snapchat	455,349	+6.3%	197
9	r/MeetPeople	347,176	+8.0%	2
10	r/introverts	344,510	+1.7%	424
11	r/R4R30Plus	261,804	+31%	3,809
12	r/chat	256,223	+28%	3,018
13	r/penpals	251,972	+14%	1,326
14	r/friendship	237,846	+23%	620
15	r/Random_Acts_Of_Amazon	220,323	+4.6%	422
16	r/Kikpals	214,406	+2.2%	20
17	r/PhR4Friends	185,553	+31%	25
18	r/textfriends	183,232	+79%	10,796
19	r/relationshipadvice	173,323	+46%	2,471
20	r/Manipulation	156,499	+8.3%	744
21	r/HaveWeMet	151,854	+5.1%	121
22	r/AdviceForTeens	109,412	+13%	857
23	r/FriendshipAdvice	108,257	+60%	5,728
24	r/RandomActsofCards	106,547	+7.8%	1,229
25	r/OnlineFriend	104,262	–	17,397

Fastest growing Relationships subreddits

Member growth over 12 months, among subreddits that had at least 18,251 members a year ago.

Fastest growing Relationships subreddits

#	Subreddit	12-mo growth	Members gained	Members	Commenters / mo
1	r/MakeFriendsOver30	+229%	+65,343	93,839	7,877
2	r/bromance	+218%	+54,551	79,579	6,222
3	r/mumbaimeetups	+109%	+21,518	41,316	1,915
4	r/discordfriends	+104%	+31,046	60,868	2,234
5	A r/AITA_Relationships	+92%	+36,515	76,293	5,616
6	r/NudistMeetup	+79%	+43,125	97,469	2,315
7	r/textfriends	+79%	+80,770	183,232	10,796
8	r/bored	+76%	+19,867	46,143	1,061
9	r/FriendshipAdvice	+60%	+40,663	108,257	5,728
10	r/FriendsOver40	+51%	+17,080	50,502	1,989
11	r/youngadults	+51%	+16,869	50,216	2,528
12	r/InternetFriends	+46%	+30,668	97,053	581
13	r/relationshipadvice	+46%	+54,344	173,323	2,471
14	V r/Vancouver4Friends	+43%	+7,950	26,533	1,303
15	C r/communication	+37%	+11,048	40,587	266
16	r/penpalsover30	+35%	+8,002	31,128	634
17	E r/etiquette	+34%	+11,110	43,818	2,599
18	r/PhR4Friends	+31%	+44,307	185,553	25
19	r/MakeNewFriendsHere	+31%	+280,471	1.18M	27,461
20	r/R4R30Plus	+31%	+61,605	261,804	3,809
21	r/chat	+28%	+56,560	256,223	3,018
22	r/LetsChat	+26%	+20,063	97,883	1,069
23	r/newfriends	+25%	+12,622	62,647	111
24	r/texts	+25%	+110,146	547,873	64,742
25	r/intentionalcommunity	+24%	+5,820	29,924	283

Most members gained

Relationships subreddits that gained the most members

#	Subreddit	Members gained	12-mo growth	Members	Commenters / mo
1	r/MakeNewFriendsHere	+280,471	+31%	1.18M	27,461
2	r/relationships	+157,551	+4.4%	3.77M	20,973
3	r/Needafriend	+111,944	+24%	585,964	7,571
4	r/texts	+110,146	+25%	547,873	64,742
5	r/socialskills	+88,984	+1.4%	6.37M	3,456
6	r/GiftIdeas	+88,498	+18%	589,895	4,190
7	r/textfriends	+80,770	+79%	183,232	10,796
8	r/MakeFriendsOver30	+65,343	+229%	93,839	7,877
9	r/R4R30Plus	+61,605	+31%	261,804	3,809
10	r/chat	+56,560	+28%	256,223	3,018
11	r/bromance	+54,551	+218%	79,579	6,222
12	r/relationshipadvice	+54,344	+46%	173,323	2,471
13	r/introvert	+51,934	+1.8%	2.87M	5,832
14	r/friendship	+44,326	+23%	237,846	620
15	r/PhR4Friends	+44,307	+31%	185,553	25
16	r/NudistMeetup	+43,125	+79%	97,469	2,315
17	r/FriendshipAdvice	+40,663	+60%	108,257	5,728
18	A r/AITA_Relationships	+36,515	+92%	76,293	5,616
19	r/discordfriends	+31,046	+104%	60,868	2,234
20	r/InternetFriends	+30,668	+46%	97,053	581
21	r/penpals	+30,200	+14%	251,972	1,326
22	r/snapchat	+26,836	+6.3%	455,349	197
23	r/MeetPeople	+25,803	+8.0%	347,176	2
24	r/mumbaimeetups	+21,518	+109%	41,316	1,915
25	r/LetsChat	+20,063	+26%	97,883	1,069

Most active Relationships subreddits

People who comment in a month, the average of the three months ending September 2026.

Most active Relationships subreddits

#	Subreddit	Commenters / mo	Posts / mo	Members
1	r/texts	64,742	1,212	547,873
2	r/MakeNewFriendsHere	27,461	51,734	1.18M
3	r/relationships	20,973	7,143	3.77M
4	r/OnlineFriend	17,397	16,955	104,262
5	r/JodiMilan	12,106	5,564	63,683
6	r/textfriends	10,796	10,936	183,232
7	r/MakeFriendsOver30	7,877	6,423	93,839
8	r/Needafriend	7,571	13,370	585,964
9	r/bromance	6,222	3,442	79,579
10	r/MakeRedditFriends	5,841	5,345	38,696
11	r/introvert	5,832	1,657	2.87M
12	r/FriendshipAdvice	5,728	4,986	108,257
13	A r/AITA_Relationships	5,616	2,782	76,293
14	r/NewFriendsOver40	4,710	1,486	50,120
15	r/GiftIdeas	4,190	1,133	589,895
16	r/R4R30Plus	3,809	5,613	261,804
17	r/socialskills	3,456	2,161	6.37M
18	r/chat	3,018	9,663	256,223
19	r/findafriend	2,726	2,488	19,502
20	r/UkFriends	2,625	2,854	22,092
21	E r/etiquette	2,599	224	43,818
22	r/youngadults	2,528	675	50,216
23	r/TorontoHangoutFriends	2,524	1,391	31,400
24	r/relationshipadvice	2,471	2,006	173,323
25	r/NudistMeetup	2,315	1,241	97,469

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