Top Love & Dating subreddits

Largest Love & Dating subreddits

Largest Love & Dating subreddits

#	Subreddit	Members	12-mo growth	Commenters / mo
1	r/relationship_advice	15.89M	+2.2%	65,319
2	r/dating	6.28M	+1.8%	7,893
3	r/Tinder	5.97M	+1.7%	23,143
4	r/dating_advice	4.91M	+5.7%	67,734
5	r/RelationshipMemes	3.75M	+0.4%	508
6	r/sex	2.91M	+5.6%	12,076
7	r/LongDistance	2.49M	+2.3%	6,446
8	r/datingoverthirty	1.18M	+3.9%	2,887
9	r/Marriage	1.02M	+18%	37,001
10	r/r4r	864,983	+18%	2
11	r/AskMenAdvice	837,986	+20%	20,800
12	r/RelationshipIndia	603,915	+6.2%	7,263
13	r/BreakUps	597,926	+39%	23,827
14	D r/DeadBedrooms	594,667	+14%	3,360
15	r/love	506,885	+7.0%	1,703
16	W r/whatdoIdo	487,155	+150%	114,628
17	r/polyamory	473,908	+13%	4,109
18	r/Bumble	468,720	+12%	25,043
19	r/BoyDinnerDiaries	388,713	–	28,033
20	r/ForeverAloneDating	384,389	+22%	2
21	r/Indiangirlsontinder	365,729	+23%	5,043
22	C r/cheating_stories	347,282	+22%	4,687
23	r/FemaleDatingStrategy	270,550	–	0
24	r/pickuplines	270,475	+1.7%	165
25	O r/OkCupid	263,123	+3.5%	386

Fastest growing Love & Dating subreddits

Member growth over 12 months, among subreddits that had at least 18,251 members a year ago.

Fastest growing Love & Dating subreddits

#	Subreddit	12-mo growth	Members gained	Members	Commenters / mo
1	r/AllHayganeen	+187%	+55,731	85,597	5,308
2	r/AskMenRelationships	+161%	+30,586	49,587	7,399
3	r/SingleAndHappy	+150%	+46,900	78,123	2,910
4	W r/whatdoIdo	+150%	+292,282	487,155	114,628
5	r/romance	+132%	+29,025	51,020	1,264
6	r/gaydating	+107%	+20,909	40,537	569
7	r/ToxicRelationships	+100%	+22,260	44,504	654
8	r/cf4cf	+93%	+27,373	56,903	2,030
9	r/Singles	+82%	+52,188	115,594	308
10	r/datingoverfifty	+81%	+35,725	79,746	6,506
11	r/BlackMeetsWhite	+81%	+14,874	33,295	177
12	r/datingadviceformen	+77%	+25,013	57,357	4,704
13	r/ChristianDating	+75%	+18,765	43,714	1,696
14	r/asexualdating	+66%	+16,836	42,365	1,281
15	r/PhR4Dating	+64%	+36,050	92,280	657
16	r/EthicalNonMonogamy	+64%	+19,559	50,235	1,315
17	r/CheatingGF	+64%	+14,882	38,288	120
18	r/Crush	+62%	+12,878	33,581	2,036
19	I r/interracialdating	+60%	+28,982	76,991	3,124
20	r/DatingHell	+55%	+10,621	29,983	1,276
21	r/ghosting	+54%	+10,423	29,835	2,245
22	r/openmarriageregret	+53%	+12,571	36,469	472
23	r/relationships_advice	+52%	+41,329	121,296	11,627
24	r/theotherwoman	+49%	+13,933	42,547	122
25	r/InsideIndianMarriage	+49%	+14,135	43,183	1,956

Most members gained

Love & Dating subreddits that gained the most members

#	Subreddit	Members gained	12-mo growth	Members	Commenters / mo
1	r/relationship_advice	+344,170	+2.2%	15.89M	65,319
2	W r/whatdoIdo	+292,282	+150%	487,155	114,628
3	r/dating_advice	+264,873	+5.7%	4.91M	67,734
4	r/BreakUps	+166,533	+39%	597,926	23,827
5	r/Marriage	+156,821	+18%	1.02M	37,001
6	r/sex	+153,943	+5.6%	2.91M	12,076
7	r/AskMenAdvice	+140,215	+20%	837,986	20,800
8	r/r4r	+134,081	+18%	864,983	2
9	r/dating	+113,771	+1.8%	6.28M	7,893
10	r/Tinder	+97,538	+1.7%	5.97M	23,143
11	D r/DeadBedrooms	+74,056	+14%	594,667	3,360
12	O r/OnlineDating	+70,721	+38%	257,789	3,016
13	r/ForeverAloneDating	+68,991	+22%	384,389	2
14	r/Indiangirlsontinder	+67,423	+23%	365,729	5,043
15	C r/cheating_stories	+62,682	+22%	347,282	4,687
16	r/AllHayganeen	+55,731	+187%	85,597	5,308
17	r/LongDistance	+55,470	+2.3%	2.49M	6,446
18	r/polyamory	+54,199	+13%	473,908	4,109
19	r/Singles	+52,188	+82%	115,594	308
20	r/Bumble	+51,514	+12%	468,720	25,043
21	r/datingoverforty	+51,136	+32%	212,031	7,569
22	r/SingleAndHappy	+46,900	+150%	78,123	2,910
23	r/datingoverthirty	+44,576	+3.9%	1.18M	2,887
24	r/hingeapp	+44,313	+27%	207,648	7,662
25	r/adultery	+43,321	+24%	226,454	2,357

Most active Love & Dating subreddits

People who comment in a month, the average of the three months ending September 2026.

Most active Love & Dating subreddits

#	Subreddit	Commenters / mo	Posts / mo	Members
1	W r/whatdoIdo	114,628	7,262	487,155
2	r/dating_advice	67,734	16,925	4.91M
3	r/relationship_advice	65,319	23,581	15.89M
4	r/Marriage	37,001	5,674	1.02M
5	r/BoyDinnerDiaries	28,033	3,221	388,713
6	r/Bumble	25,043	2,397	468,720
7	r/BreakUps	23,827	14,250	597,926
8	r/Tinder	23,143	2,466	5.97M
9	r/AskMenAdvice	20,800	2,444	837,986
10	r/twenties	19,256	436	52,489
11	r/sex	12,076	5,905	2.91M
12	r/relationships_advice	11,627	5,506	121,296
13	r/HingeStories	11,531	1,075	38,641
14	r/GenZIndia	10,966	2,097	84,910
15	r/SelfiesCouples	9,664	4,270	95,416
16	r/dating	7,893	7,112	6.28M
17	r/hingeapp	7,662	3,522	207,648
18	r/datingoverforty	7,569	948	212,031
19	r/AskMenRelationships	7,399	2,329	49,587
20	I r/IndianBoysOnTinder	7,372	1,815	123,909
21	r/marriageadvice	7,300	1,397	112,283
22	r/RelationshipIndia	7,263	3,646	603,915
23	r/IndianRelationships	6,778	1,645	27,234
24	r/datingoverfifty	6,506	604	79,746
25	r/LongDistance	6,446	3,630	2.49M

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