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Welcome to the AmITheAsshole community, relationship edition. Since relationship posts are banned from AITA, you guys are welcome to post them here.

9.4k subscribers585 posts / mo in Sep 2026538 authors / mosince 2020

r/AITARelationship has 9.4k members. It gets about 585 posts a month from 538 people. Top topics: AITA/WIBTA Experiences, AITA for Boyfriend Situations and AITA Dating Scenarios.

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Size and growth

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Subscriber growth

Subscribers over time

+279%since May 2026
Oct 20269.3k
Growing9.3k subscribers
  • no data — drawn from 0 at creation (Jan 2020)
Live · through Oct 2026
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Monthly activity

Posts, comments and authors per month

+814%vs Sep 2025 · +177% last 3 months vs the 3 before
Sep 2026585
BusierPeaked at 749 in Aug 2026
Data through Sep 2026 · October usually lands mid-November

What people talk about

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Top topics

Share of the subreddit's posts

  1. AITA/WIBTA Experiences1.1%
  2. AITA for Boyfriend Situations1.1%
  3. AITA Dating Scenarios1.1%
  4. Relationship Challenges1.1%
  5. Relationship Issues0.7%

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Posts and activity for Sep 2026. Members from Reddit's subscriber counts. Read from the same data the app runs on. Our research