Dating subreddits
We found 161 active dating subreddits: communities with at least one new post a day on average in September 2026, ranked by members. The largest is r/relationship_advice with 15.9M members. It is also the busiest, with 23,342 posts last month. In 30 of the 147 we could measure, a brand-new account's post usually stays up: they remove 17% or fewer of posts from accounts under a week old.
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- r/relationship_advice15.9M members
- r/singleph+393% members in 12 months
- r/Marriage15% of new-account posts removed
- r/Arrangedmarriage100% of posts get a reply
All active dating subreddits, by members
| # | Subreddit | Members | Posts / month | Member growth, 12 mo | Median author age | Women | Posts with a reply | New-account posts removed | Links |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | r/relationship_advice↗Need help with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help! | 15.9M | 23,342 | +2% | 25 | 54% | 89% | 74% | No |
| 2 | r/dating↗A subreddit to discuss and explore the dating process and learn from the experiences of others | 6.28M | 6,476 | +2% | 26 | 45% | 11% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 3 | r/Tinder↗A community for discussing the online dating app Tinder. Sharing conversations, reviewing profiles and more. | 5.97M | 2,172 | +2% | 27 | 26% | 75% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 4 | r/dating_advice↗this sub is for advice about specific dating situations not general debates. posts about relationships longer than 6 months post go to r/relationship_advice or if you are married post to r/marriage | 4.91M | 15,648 | +6% | 26 | 46% | 93% | 88% | No |
| 5 | r/RelationshipMemes↗💕 The home of fun, relatable, funny, cute, and positive memes that celebrate happy, healthy relationships of many kinds 💕 | 3.75M | 93 | 0% | 25 | 41% | 53% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 6 | r/sex↗r/sex is for civil discussions pertaining to education and advice regarding your sexuality and sexual relationships. It is a sex-positive community and a safe space for people of all genders and orien | 2.91M | 5,664 | +6% | 26 | 45% | 82% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 7 | r/LongDistance↗r/LongDistance is a subreddit for and about long distance relationships. For anyone considering(but not seeking), currently in, or who used to be, this is the community for you! We are here for suppor | 2.49M | 3,638 | +2% | 24 | 61% | 76% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 8 | r/datingoverthirty↗A subreddit for folks nearing or over 30 who are looking for dating advice. | 1.18M | 1,114 | +4% | 33 | 53% | 100% | 100% | No |
| 9 | r/Marriage↗new-account friendlyA place for sharing the for-better and for-worse of marriage. | 1.02M | 5,206 | +18% | 33 | 61% | 86% | 15% | Yes |
| 10 | r/r4r↗Whether you're looking for platonic or non-platonic friends, gaming buddies, online friends, soulmates, travelmates, smoking buddies, activity partners, friends with benefits, or casual encounters, th | 865K | 10,560 | +18% | 26 | 29% | 82% | 51% | No |
| 11 | r/AskMenAdvice↗A space to ask for men's advice about personal situations. | 838K | 2,238 | +20% | 34 | 33% | 94% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 12 | r/BreakUps↗new-account friendly"Pain makes you stronger, fear makes you braver, heartbreak makes you wiser" - A global peer-support community for navigating relationship loss. | 598K | 12,813 | +39% | 25 | 52% | 100% | 13% | Yes |
| 13 | r/DeadBedrooms↗Support group for Redditors who are in a relationship with sex generally ten times a year or less & one/both partners are unhappy with it. This is a safe place for members of all backgrounds & libido | 595K | 1,340 | +14% | 32 | 47% | 96% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 14 | r/love↗Here we talk about all things having to do with love! Romantic, familial, platonic, what have you, all forms of love are welcome to be talked about here! | 507K | 735 | +7% | 26 | 55% | 100% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 15 | r/polyamory↗Polyamory is openly, honestly, and consensually loving and being committed to more than one person. This subreddit discusses news, views, and issues around polyamory, and the people who do it | 474K | 1,415 | +13% | 30 | 55% | 100% | 92% | No |
| 16 | r/Bumble↗Subreddit for the dating app Bumble. Users are welcomed to discuss usage of the app as well as dating in general! | 469K | 2,514 | +12% | 30 | 37% | 84% | 61% | Yes |
| 17 | r/ForeverAloneDating↗Dating for the dating impaired. 18+ only. 100+ COMMENT KARMA **NOT TOTAL KARMA** and a 7 DAY OLD ACCOUNT REQUIRED. Put your location in your title. Post flair is required and needs to be correct. No | 384K | 3,248 | +22% | 25 | 27% | 96% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 18 | r/Indiangirlsontinder↗No matter a guy or a girl, share some cringeworthy profiles or chats from your Tinder encounters, have fun! :) Also remember that this is NOT an incel jerk sub, so if you're looking to whine about wo | 366K | 940 | +23% | 24 | 21% | 95% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 19 | r/cheating_stories↗Put your TRUE cheating stories here. | 347K | 1,176 | +22% | 30 | 47% | 61% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 20 | r/pickuplines↗new-account friendlyA subreddit for all your pick up line needs. Yes, our icon is a line drawing of a pickup. | 270K | 64 | +2% | 21 | 16% | 51% | 13% | Yes |
| 21 | r/OkCupid↗OkCupid on reddit | 263K | 130 | +3% | 30 | 37% | 65% | 84% | Yes |
| 22 | r/OnlineDating↗Everything about online dating - your amusing stores, advice, and encouragement when you need it. | 258K | 996 | +38% | 30 | 41% | 12% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 23 | r/adultery↗Thinking about infidelity? | 226K | 954 | +24% | 35 | 42% | 95% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 24 | r/nonmonogamy↗new-account friendlyNon-Monogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of interpersonal relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners. This community | 216K | 909 | +23% | 32 | 47% | 100% | 12% | Yes |
| 25 | r/datingoverforty↗This is a place to ask questions in order to receive advice regarding your dating and relationships over 40 (not marriage or marriage-equivalent relationships); it is not a place to look for dates or | 212K | 909 | +32% | 43 | 53% | 83% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 26 | r/CougarsAndCubs↗READ THE FAQ & RULES BEFORE POSTING OR COMMENTING! A safe space to trade experiences, frustrations, worries, analyze cultural reactions, or just chat with fellow cougars and cubs. Working definition: | 208K | 282 | +16% | 26 | 17% | 60% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 27 | r/hingeapp↗A community for discussing the Hinge dating app. **This subreddit is not affiliated with or represent Hinge in any official capacity.** Request a profile review, ask for advice, get help, or share you | 208K | 2,756 | +27% | 27 | 34% | 92% | 99% | Yes |
| 28 | r/polyamoryR4R↗Welcome to /r/polyamoryR4R! This place is for redditors seeking to find and create new polyamorous type relationships! This is strictly not a hookup reddit, please read the rules carefully before post | 205K | 1,300 | +23% | 31 | 34% | 94% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 29 | r/lolgrindr↗Homogeosociosexual networking app lol's | 201K | 131 | +3% | 27 | 18% | 84% | 29% | Yes |
| 30 | r/AskIndianMen↗Indian Men: Too complicated to explain, but feel free to try anyway - just know it might turn into a TED Talk. | 179K | 3,385 | +120% | 25 | 27% | 58% | 78% | Yes |
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| # | Subreddit | Members | Posts / month | Member growth, 12 mo | Median author age | Women | Posts with a reply | New-account posts removed | Links |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 31 | r/AskGaybrosOver30↗AskGaybrosOver30 is first and foremost a community where unstraight men over 30 can ask advice from each other. We have requirements for posting and some topics like politics, trans issues, and relig | 173K | 1,360 | +30% | 34 | 13% | 97% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 32 | r/TwoXSex↗You know those nitty gritty details you can only talk about with your best friend? Well, here is TwoXSex: a place for women to bare all about their experiences, concerns, questions, anything you may w | 172K | 223 | +9% | 28 | 76% | 85% | 75% | Yes |
| 33 | r/relationship_advicePH↗Need advice with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help. Get opinions from fellow Filipinos and understand your connect | 160K | 274 | +5% | 24 | 67% | 45% | 100% | No |
| 34 | r/grindr↗The homogeosociosexual networking app we love to hate — see subreddit sidebar | 159K | 279 | +8% | 26 | 12% | 80% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 35 | r/PurplePillDebate↗PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to r/TheBluePill and r/TheRedPill. | 158K | 753 | +11% | 28 | 37% | 96% | 97% | No |
| 36 | r/Infidelity↗Welcome to the Infidelity subreddit. We're sorry circumstances have brought you to us, but glad we can offer support. This is a place for those struggling with infidelity to ask questions and seek gu | 144K | 729 | +16% | 31 | 54% | 100% | 96% | Yes |
| 37 | r/MuslimMarriage↗This subreddit is for discussion on Muslims getting married and staying (happily) married. | 142K | 1,907 | +30% | 25 | 54% | 76% | 97% | Yes |
| 38 | r/Crushes↗new-account friendlyr/Crushes is a safe place for people to talk about their crushes and ask for advice. LGBTQ+ are welcome :) We also have a Discord server. | 136K | 2,815 | +19% | 19 | 52% | 100% | 7% | No |
| 39 | r/JustNoSO↗A place to post about your SO who is just the *worst*. Come for support, come for advice, or just to vent and get it all out. That's what we're here for. | 131K | 36 | +2% | 31 | 88% | 86% | 66% | No |
| 40 | r/Arrangedmarriage↗## Welcome to r/ArrangedMarriage! First things first: if you're new to our subreddit, please begin by reading [this post](https://www.reddit.com/r/Arrangedmarriage/comments/mrmk02/welcome_to_rarrange | 128K | 989 | +22% | 28 | 38% | 100% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 41 | r/IndianBoysOnTinder↗Most Indian men on dating apps are annoying and lame as fuck. If we have a page for girls, there is an even greater need to make one for the great Indian boys on Tinder and Co. Feel free to post your | 124K | 1,774 | +39% | 24 | 23% | 84% | 72% | Yes |
| 42 | r/thepassportbros↗A community dedicated to the Passport Bros movement. Our goal is to give people a place to help and advise others who may be an aspiring or active PPB. PPBs date in different ways, for different rea | 123K | 469 | +24% | 32 | 19% | 75% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 43 | r/relationships_advice↗Relationships, dating, marriage, drama, breakups, cheating, venting. | 121K | 7,485 | +52% | 26 | 63% | 97% | 59% | No |
| 44 | r/AskWomenNoCensor↗Hello, everyone! *YES, EVERYONE!* Welcome to AskWomenNoCensor, where you can ask questions and receive the uncensored opinions of individual women — not a hive mind, not a monolith, and definitely not | 121K | 1,280 | +57% | 29 | 56% | 99% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 45 | r/Singles↗Welcome to r/Singles, the premier SFW community for genuine individuals (18+) to meet, mingle, and build real connections. Our space is strictly for personal ads and meaningful introductions. No bots, | 116K | 3,277 | +82% | 27 | 35% | 99% | 100% | Yes |
| 46 | r/marriageadvice↗Need advice about your marriage? Talk to random strangers on the internet about it here. | 112K | 1,436 | +45% | 35 | 61% | 91% | 22% | No |
| 47 | r/LDR↗This community was created to be a welcoming space for couples in Long Distance Relationships. | 96K | 1,086 | +19% | 24 | 67% | 59% | 49% | Yes |
| 48 | r/PhR4Dating↗A community of Filipino Redditors looking for exclusive relationship, long-term dating, life-partnership and marriage. This subreddit is SFW and only allows Redditors who are 21+. Please read the r | 92K | 1,347 | +64% | 26 | 49% | 84% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 49 | r/RedPillWomen↗Welcome to the *original* Red Pill Women subreddit! | 90K | 102 | +13% | 28 | 65% | 100% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 50 | r/AllHayganeen↗ الصب دة معمول للنقاشات الحضارية عن التعليم والنصايح بخصوص ميولك الجنسية وعلاقاتك. كمان الصب دة مش مكان لأي حاجة غير النقاشات الجنسية التوعوية، أسم الصب مش معناه خالص اننا هيجانيين وداخلين نشوف حد ننط | 86K | 5,470 | +187% | 24 | 16% | 35% | 97% | Yes |
| 51 | r/datingoverfifty↗A forum for discussing the ins and outs of dating over 50, as well as nascent relationships, and single life. | 80K | 568 | +81% | 53 | 53% | 80% | 90% | No |
| 52 | r/AskPinoyMen↗A space for honest, thoughtful, and respectful questions directed at Filipino men. Curious about how Pinoy guys think, feel, or experience life? This is the place to ask! Whether it's about dating, cu | 79K | 1,609 | +241% | 28 | 45% | 86% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 53 | r/SingleAndHappy↗A community for people who are intentionally single and are happy. Having a happy and fulfilled life doesn't require a partner. Let’s normalize happiness in single status! | 78K | 489 | +150% | 35 | 72% | 98% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 54 | r/interracialdating↗A space for interracial couples to share experiences, ask questions, and to support one another. | 77K | 349 | +60% | 29 | 55% | 77% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 55 | r/AskPinay↗A supportive space for Filipinas to ask QUESTIONS on topics like life, love, health, career, beauty, family, and culture. This community welcomes open, respectful conversations. Connect with fellow Pi | 72K | 1,166 | +203% | 28 | 72% | 96% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 56 | r/Waiting_To_Wed↗Community for all the people in a stagnant relationship. Whether you’re in a relationship with no proposal in sight, have a partner who stalls with planning a wedding, or need help with timelines and | 71K | 308 | +22% | 35 | 83% | 81% | 96% | Yes |
| 57 | r/NerdDating↗This is a sub intended for fellow redditors to find love that they share the same interests with and not be judged. | 71K | 5,886 | +336% | 27 | 23% | 43% | 58% | Yes |
| 58 | r/singleph↗Created this community for those single peeps who feel like nothing works out for them. This is a safe place to rant about our current dating scene in the Philippines, find new friends, or find a pote | 62K | 1,374 | +393% | 28 | 49% | 68% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 59 | r/virgin↗Share with us your hopes, fears and experiences in this support community for virgins. This is a privilege-free, drama-free, no-judgment zone. | 62K | 667 | +26% | 23 | 31% | 83% | 77% | Yes |
| 60 | r/AgeGapRelationship↗This community is to discuss age gap relationships in the news or articles about age gaps. This subreddit is ONLY for links to age gap related articles and posts about happy relationships. For advic | 61K | 155 | +35% | 31 | 53% | 97% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 61 | r/tinderstories↗Share your unique Tinder date experience. We love to hear your love story or funny encounters! | 59K | 75 | +6% | 28 | 42% | 58% | 83% | Yes |
| 62 | r/Christianmarriage↗Christian Marriage is a subreddit for marrieds, soon-to-be marrieds, daters, and singles for discussing all things related to marriage from a Christian perspective. It's a place where you can share yo | 57K | 445 | +23% | 30 | 57% | 93% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 63 | r/datingadviceformen↗new-account friendlyA subreddit for guys to exchange advice, success stories, get over rejection, or just play with ideas for attracting and interacting with women on both a physical and emotional level. | 57K | 2,410 | +77% | 27 | 19% | 99% | 16% | Yes |
| 64 | r/SwipeHelper↗A subreddit for exchanging advanced advice for online apps such as Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and more. | 57K | 505 | +25% | 27 | 22% | 56% | 92% | Yes |
| 65 | r/cf4cf↗Neither of us has or wants kids. Ever. In any form. So let's chat and see where it goes! https://childfree4childfree.com/ | 57K | 1,230 | +93% | 31 | 43% | 45% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 66 | r/NarcissisticSpouses↗new-account friendlyA subreddit for people living with, or dealing with the aftermath of leaving, a narcissistic spouse. | 57K | 985 | +36% | 35 | 76% | 75% | 9% | Yes |
| 67 | r/AskGirls↗AskGirls: A subreddit dedicated to asking girls, young women, and other femme-presenting individuals questions about their thoughts, lives, and experiences; providing a place where they can comfortabl | 52K | 316 | +24% | 22 | 42% | 92% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 68 | r/relationshipgoals↗A subreddit for all those special moments you have with the many people on this planet! | 52K | 75 | +6% | 24 | 58% | 23% | 25% | Yes |
| 69 | r/romance↗ROMANCE a place to share your stories, get dating/relationship advice, share Romantic images, Poetry, Love letters,Romantic music, Online dating site profile advice etc...lets start the conversation a | 51K | 905 | +132% | 26 | 52% | 29% | 50% | Yes |
| 70 | r/EthicalNonMonogamy↗The Front Porch of all things relating to Ethical Non-Monogamy. Grab a beverage and join the conversations. | 50K | 339 | +64% | 36 | 51% | 98% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 71 | r/AskMenRelationships↗Relationship advice for dating, romantic, platonic, marital, school, work, family, or even neighborly relationships. Ask men for their advice on relationships. | 50K | 2,765 | +161% | 30 | 52% | 88% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 72 | r/CheatersConfronted↗Videos, pictures, and stories about cheaters, mistresses, and unloyal partners being confronted. | 49K | 88 | +28% | 30 | 53% | 74% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 73 | r/widowers↗A place for anyone who has lost a companion to share and heal. Please see below for helpful posts, related subreddits and community guidelines. | 46K | 807 | +27% | 38 | 60% | 92% | 17% | Yes |
| 74 | r/deadbedroom↗A community for both sides of the deadbedroom coin. A place for advice or simply a rant. We've probably heard your story but you may not have heard the advice yet. There may be topics discussed here t | 46K | 544 | +33% | 35 | 45% | 55% | 23% | Yes |
| 75 | r/Obsessive_Love↗new-account friendlyThis is a subreddit dedicated to yandere content, mostly stories from personal experiences, or just casual conversations. Due to the fractured nature of the yandere community as a whole, this place is | 46K | 1,341 | +382% | 22 | 43% | 67% | 6% | Yes |
| 76 | r/catfish↗This subreddit is meant for any and all discussion, story-telling, or information sharing (within the rules) concerning catfish and catfishing (no, not the actual fish). If you choose to participate i | 46K | 202 | +10% | 27 | 59% | 58% | 53% | No |
| 77 | r/ToxicRelationships↗Relationships are hard. Toxic ones are worse. Sometimes, you just need help or someone to listen to you. We are here for that. | 45K | 970 | +100% | 25 | 69% | 87% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 78 | r/ChristianDating↗Meet other Christians for a meaningful relationship or helpful advice. | 44K | 789 | +75% | 27 | 48% | 74% | 74% | Yes |
| 79 | r/InsideIndianMarriage↗Welcome to r/InsideIndianMarriage! A place to share and explore all the joys and trials that make the grand odyssey of an Indian marriage. Indian marriages are a world of their own ; full of complexi | 43K | 1,063 | +49% | 29 | 48% | 100% | 93% | Yes |
| 80 | r/theotherwoman↗This is a non-judgemental place for the affair dynamic of a single WOMAN or MAN in an affair with a married/attached by marriage person. Here, you can discuss your experiences being the other person o | 43K | 280 | +49% | 32 | 84% | 100% | 78% | Yes |
| 81 | r/asexualdating↗A Dating subreddit for those on the Ace spectrum (Little to no traditional sexual attraction). This is a place for us to come together. You could try to find someone for yourself, ask for advice, sup | 42K | 819 | +66% | 26 | 55% | 59% | 65% | No |
| 82 | r/gaydating↗The international strictly SFW place for gay guys to find love! ❤️🌍 This is a safe space exclusively for those looking to find someone to date, a long-term relationship, and hopefully love! 👨🏽❤️👨🏼 | 41K | 1,377 | +107% | 24 | 4% | 92% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 83 | r/DatingApps↗The Reddit hub for discussion of dating apps, online dating, and the hilarities that ensue with it! | 40K | 404 | +46% | 28 | 38% | 49% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 84 | r/amwf↗new-account friendlyWelcome! This is a community that is for and about AMWF couples. For those of you who don’t know AMWF is an acronym that stands for Asian Male + White Female. This subreddit is meant to be a lighthear | 39K | 129 | +42% | 29 | 35% | 91% | 13% | Yes |
| 85 | r/HingeStories↗new-account friendlyA place to share hinge stories, memes, conversations. Let’s see your funny conversations and pickup lines | 39K | 1,231 | +427% | 31 | 37% | 92% | 10% | Yes |
| 86 | r/CheatingGF↗A place to vent or talk about your spouse.. and how they could be going behind your back. | 38K | 178 | +64% | 30 | 24% | 18% | 95% | No |
| 87 | r/teenrelationships↗A subreddit with the goal of helping young people with their relationship issues. Whether you are a teenager, or have a teenager in your life with an issue you need help with, we're your place. | 37K | 2,170 | +43% | 17 | 47% | 98% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 88 | r/RelationshipsOver35↗RelationshipsOver35 is a place for over 30 adults to discuss their relationships,friendships, and families with other over 30 adults. Actual relationships you are or were in. | 37K | 293 | +36% | 38 | 64% | 79% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 89 | r/openmarriageregret↗Life is about choices. Some we regret, some we are proud of - and some will haunt us forever. Opening a monogamous relationship often leads to disaster. This sub-reddit is intended to caution people | 36K | 83 | +53% | 36 | 54% | 91% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 90 | r/Crush↗new-account friendlyr/Crush is the community for people to talk about a crush and anything related. "You look pretty good today, But do you even know my feeling for you?" Gender-neutral subreddit. | 34K | 2,924 | +62% | 20 | 51% | 40% | 11% | Yes |
| 91 | r/BlackMeetsWhite↗A community based on interracial BM/WW relationships throughout the globe | 33K | 126 | +81% | 29 | 24% | 58% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 92 | r/wemetonline↗r/wemetonline is a subreddit for giving and receiving advice, venting frustrations and sharing stories about that special someone you met online. Just because you haven't touched him or her physically | 33K | 119 | +8% | 24 | 66% | 56% | – | Yes |
| 93 | r/Eloping↗Your day, your way! From city hall to destinations worldwide - high budget - or looking to save - share your elopement story, pictures, advice, and discuss anything elopement-related. If your plans in | 33K | 177 | +37% | 30 | 91% | 73% | 83% | Yes |
| 94 | r/Flirting↗Ask anything about flirting, give us your best pickup lines, tell us how your date went, give flirting advice, or further your understanding of the art of seduction! Note: This sub was not created by | 33K | 109 | +24% | 25 | 35% | 64% | 52% | No |
| 95 | r/KeralaRelationships↗r/KeralaRelationships is a community focusing on helping people and to discuss on interpersonal relationships, whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction, from th | 33K | 1,329 | +245% | 26 | 30% | 78% | 94% | Yes |
| 96 | r/married↗new-account friendlyr/married is a place for married people to discuss things that affect married people. | 32K | 1,294 | +175% | 38 | 53% | 67% | 12% | Yes |
| 97 | r/AMWFs↗Welcome! This is a place to discuss issues and topics surrounding AMWF relationships and families. While AMWF stands for relationships between Asian men and white women we are absolutely not exclusive | 32K | 90 | +49% | 30 | 39% | 72% | 100% | Yes |
| 98 | r/DatingInIndia↗new-account friendlyA space to share stories, seek advice, and laugh about the joys and struggles of dating in India. ❤️ | 32K | 82 | +153% | 24 | 20% | 2% | 12% | Yes |
| 99 | r/Cougars_Den↗READ the RULES and WIKI page before participating!!! A place for Cougars and Cubs to discuss, share, get advice, laugh and rant. This is a SFW sub and anyone with a reference on their posts to On | 32K | 100 | +29% | 26 | 16% | 76% | 90% | Yes |
| 100 | r/CatholicDating↗For when coffee and doughnuts after Mass doesn't cut it. | 32K | 276 | +22% | 26 | 43% | 53% | 95% | Yes |
| 101 | r/AskLesbians↗Ask Lesbians! Assembling an impromptu panel of wise queer women to help you through any question in life. If you are new to this subreddit, please read our rules before posting. Especially if you yo | 31K | 329 | +31% | 25 | 81% | 56% | 86% | No |
| 102 | r/SingleWomenByChoice↗A feminist, female only space for women who are single and like it that way. All women choosing single life are welcome-whether permanently or temporarily, with or without children, and regardless of | 31K | 274 | – | 35 | 90% | 93% | 74% | Yes |
| 103 | r/gayrelationships↗Advice, tips, musings, lessons, fears, worries, stories, and more 👬💘 | 30K | 474 | +48% | 28 | 13% | 92% | 24% | Yes |
| 104 | r/DatingHell↗Welcome to r/DatingHell. This community was created for others to share their horrible dating experiences. | 30K | 336 | +55% | 33 | 61% | 52% | 52% | No |
| 105 | r/AskWomenIndia↗A subreddit focussed on providing a non-judgemental space dedicated to asking Indian women questions about their thoughts, lives and experiences. | 30K | 82 | +233% | 25 | 47% | 57% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 106 | r/ghosting↗new-account friendlyGhosting is breaking off a relationship by ceasing all communication & contact with a partner without any warning or justification and ignoring the partner's attempts to reach out and communicate. I i | 30K | 1,278 | +54% | 28 | 64% | 56% | 4% | No |
| 107 | r/ChildfreeIndia↗Discussion topics and links of interest to childfree Indians. "Childfree" refers to those who do not have and do not ever want children (whether biological, adopted, or otherwise). Side Not | 28K | 470 | +109% | 28 | 46% | 90% | 87% | Yes |
| 108 | r/LowLibidoCommunity↗A support group for Redditors with lower libido than they (and/or their partner) would prefer. | 28K | 84 | +17% | 30 | 67% | 21% | 100% | Yes |
| 109 | r/IndianRelationships↗new-account friendlyWelcome to our relationship forum, a space where you can openly discuss and seek advice on Indian relationship matters. Here, you can freely ask questions, share your experiences, and seek advice with | 27K | 2,521 | +503% | 24 | 30% | 68% | 12% | Yes |
| 110 | r/Situationships↗new-account friendlyThe Gray Area of Modern Love This is a space to vent, seek advice, share stories, and untangle the messy web of situationships, almost-relationships, and everything in between. Whether you need clar | 26K | 872 | +97% | 25 | 71% | 67% | 6% | No |
| 111 | r/HLCommunity↗This sex positive community offers support to higher libido partners as they navigate sex in long term relationships. | 26K | 74 | +13% | 36 | 40% | 87% | 68% | Yes |
| 112 | r/fictosexual↗r/fictosexual is a community for people who find themselves intensely and lastingly attracted to fictional characters. Do you often fantasize about being in a relationship with a fictional character | 26K | 298 | +18% | 22 | 64% | 54% | 98% | Yes |
| 113 | r/r4rinterracial↗This subreddit is for those who are interested in or open to interracial relationships. We cater to everyone here, regardless of nationality, background, and creed. Whether you're looking for someone | 25K | 718 | +83% | 29 | 38% | 33% | 31% | No |
| 114 | r/coffeemeetsbagel↗A community for discussing the online dating app Coffee Meets Bagel ☕💜🥯 The dating app for serious daters. | 25K | 32 | +5% | 30 | 38% | – | – | Yes |
| 115 | r/PakistanRishta↗A subreddit to have discussions, seek advice and find your partner without going through the toxic rishta process. | 24K | 247 | +90% | 26 | 30% | 75% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 116 | r/MuslimNikah↗A community for Muslims to discuss, share and seek marriage advice | 23K | 1,117 | +115% | 25 | 50% | 77% | 92% | No |
| 117 | r/AMBW↗new-account friendlyA subreddit dedicated to AMBW relationships, one of the least common interracial dating groups! This subreddit encourages the communication between BW and AM. Whether it's posting selfies, ranting abo | 23K | 136 | +32% | 28 | 53% | 75% | 10% | Yes |
| 118 | r/polyadvice↗new-account friendlyNew to polyamory and need help getting started? Having some trouble with your long-standing polyamorous relationship, and want to hear what some other experienced folks have to say? Come on in! | 21K | 168 | +25% | 31 | 58% | 90% | 4% | Yes |
| 119 | r/Friendzone↗new-account friendlyA place to seek/give advice and support in matters regarding the friend zone. The friend zone refers to a platonic relationship wherein one person wishes to enter into a romantic or sexual relationsh | 21K | 751 | +16% | 24 | 28% | 50% | 9% | Yes |
| 120 | r/hopelessromantic↗new-account friendlyFor those hopelessly in love... Be Nice and Be Romantic! 🥰 | 21K | 852 | – | 25 | 49% | 35% | 8% | Yes |
| 121 | r/MedSpouse↗new-account friendlyA place for significant others of those in the Medical Profession | 21K | 125 | +26% | 29 | 69% | 92% | 4% | Yes |
| 122 | r/manifestingSP↗A community of individuals who want to learn how to manifest their specific partner and share their success stories of how they managed to do so using the Law of Attraction or Law of Assumption. This | 21K | 2,113 | +175% | 25 | 78% | 57% | 42% | Yes |
| 123 | r/relationshipanarchy↗Relationship anarchy (sometimes abbreviated RA) is the application of anarchist principles to intimate relationships. Its values include autonomy, anti-hierarchical practices, anti-normativity, and co | 20K | 59 | +55% | 33 | 65% | 76% | 27% | Yes |
| 124 | r/WomenDatingOverForty↗This is a community for women who are 40+ to share their dating experiences, seek advice and learn how to date safely and sanely in today's daunting dating environment. We are unapologetically pro-wom | 20K | 106 | +129% | 42 | 75% | 55% | 32% | Yes |
| 125 | r/TinderBios↗Welcome to r/TinderBios – the home for hilarious, cringe, clever, chaotic, or downright iconic Tinder bios and dating app gems. Whether you're showcasing your own profile, roasting someone else's (wit | 20K | 279 | +17% | 27 | 27% | 68% | 26% | Yes |
| 126 | r/UKrelationshipadvice↗Welcome to UK Relationship Advice! Post here for a UK-centric perspective and discussion about relationships, from dating to friendship and family life. | 20K | 261 | +221% | 35 | 35% | 89% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 127 | r/DatingOverSixty↗A place to discuss dating, relationships, & single life over 50, 60, & 70. We address physical, mental and social health as a foundation for healthy relationships. Topics include travel, cooking, hea | 19K | 171 | +133% | 61 | 54% | 90% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 128 | r/DatingTips↗Dating Advice | 18K | 1,020 | – | 31 | 35% | 48% | 50% | Yes |
| 129 | r/PickUpArtist↗new-account friendlyThis is the sub-reddit for those who want to have more success with women. Here we share tips on picking up women to improve our game. | 17K | 119 | +31% | 29 | 11% | 87% | 8% | Yes |
| 130 | r/GoodGirlsCommunity↗This is a community for women who are (or want to be) submissive to their male partners. We celebrate femininity and the difference between both genders. Both kinky and traditional/religious women are | 17K | 191 | – | 30 | 71% | 63% | – | Yes |
| 131 | r/KenyanDatingCommunity↗Welcome to the Kenyan Dating Forum. Post your dating interests and be intentional about it. Find your person. Happy Dating ❤️ | 17K | 1,982 | +695% | 26 | 36% | 68% | 41% | No |
| 132 | r/itsthatbad↗This is a passport bros adjacent sub. You're free to question and criticize Western-influenced or so-called "modern" dating culture without censorship. You're free to share your thoughts on "it's that | 17K | 314 | +196% | 32 | 24% | 90% | – | Yes |
| 133 | r/ldssexuality↗new-account friendlyLDSsexuality is a place for active LDS members to discuss human sexuality with other LDS members. It is meant to open up communication of this sensitive subject. Members are invited to ask questions, | 17K | 187 | +63% | 36 | 25% | 87% | 12% | Yes |
| 134 | r/amwfdating↗This is a dating subreddit for those who are open to or pursuing an AMWF relationship. | 16K | 608 | +68% | 30 | 27% | 63% | 50% | No |
| 135 | r/marriagefree↗/r/marriagefree is for people of all genders who are unmarried by choice. Whether you are single, or you're unmarried to another person, or simply unsure if marriage is the right choice for your life | 15K | 166 | +67% | 31 | 62% | 65% | – | Yes |
| 136 | r/Dating_Bondha↗Welcome to r/Dating_Bondha! This is a chill 18+ space for singles to connect, vibe, and maybe even find something real. We’ve got a special love for Telugu users here, but everyone’s welcome, no matte | 15K | 220 | +307% | 25 | 16% | 100% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 137 | r/MilitarySpouse↗This community is for military spouses and partners, whether you're seriously dating, engaged, married, part of a dual-military couple or supporting a veteran. Military life comes with a lot of quest | 15K | 238 | +48% | 28 | 86% | 81% | 75% | No |
| 138 | r/polyamorous↗new-account friendlyA place for polyamorous and polycurious people to chat, ask questions, and celebrate their relationships! | 15K | 87 | +64% | 32 | 55% | 65% | 9% | Yes |
| 139 | r/Passport_Bros↗Passport Bros is a group dedicated to discussion about travel within the context and intent of dating in a foreign country. | 15K | 31 | +30% | 32 | 19% | 51% | 59% | Yes |
| 140 | r/lookatmygirlfriend↗Post your cute pictures of your girlfriend. This is NOT a pørn subreddit and if you post something that even barley approaches that line, you will be subject to a permanent, immediate banning withou | 14K | 130 | +54% | 26 | 23% | 1% | 100% | Yes |
| 141 | r/demiromantic↗A subreddit for discussing being demiromantic. | 13K | 47 | +18% | 22 | 62% | 62% | – | Yes |
| 142 | r/PlentyofFish↗Plenty of Fish (POF) | 13K | 37 | +10% | 36 | 32% | – | – | Yes |
| 143 | r/queerplatonic↗A subreddit where people can share their stories, ideas, and thoughts about queerplatonic/quasiplatonic relationships! People in QPRs, interested in QPRs, or anyone who wants to understand them a litt | 13K | 81 | +65% | 23 | 65% | 79% | – | Yes |
| 144 | r/livingaparttogether↗Loving relationships with a preference NOT to cohabit, highlighting positive examples of LAT relationships in the media and hosting discussion of topics relating to our own. | 13K | 38 | – | 40 | 77% | – | – | Yes |
| 145 | r/l4l↗WLW seeking other WLW. | 13K | 78 | +49% | 26 | 94% | 27% | Min. age/karma | No |
| 146 | r/boyfriends↗new-account friendlyAnything about boyfriends | 12K | 592 | +45% | 22 | 80% | 100% | 16% | Yes |
| 147 | r/TorontoSinglesOver30↗A subreddit for single Torontonians over 30 years old. Feel free to share your dating stories, advice, and potentially look for your future partners in the city here 🙂 **This is NOT a casual/polyamor | 12K | 242 | +91% | 34 | 40% | 92% | 100% | No |
| 148 | r/sgdatingscene↗Creating a safe space for us to talk and discuss our dating experiences and relationships in our sunny Singapore ☀️ | 12K | 392 | +260% | 29 | 38% | 22% | 50% | Yes |
| 149 | r/AWDTSGisToxic↗"Are We Dating The Same Guy" - is a FB group created with the purpose: "To keep women safe." However 98%+ of the posts are women who doxx, cyberstalk and shame men, often after being rejected. Since t | 12K | 368 | +26% | 32 | 39% | 80% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 150 | r/christiandatingadvice↗new-account friendlyA subreddit for dating advice for Christians. | 11K | 162 | +63% | 26 | 50% | 83% | 8% | Yes |
| 151 | r/MilitaryWives↗A place for any military spouse or partners to share their experiences and learn from each other. | 11K | 92 | +34% | 26 | 90% | 60% | 17% | No |
| 152 | r/RomanticAdvice↗This community is for everybody who has problems in their dating life or in their romantic relationships. | 11K | 1,650 | +66% | 23 | 57% | 100% | 32% | Yes |
| 153 | r/FacebookDating↗Online Facebook Dating App discussions and advice. FB Dating is a free alternative to Hinge, Bumble, Tinder for finding girls, guys, etc | 11K | 230 | – | 33 | 31% | 76% | – | Yes |
| 154 | r/tradwives↗new-account friendlyWe're so glad you're here! This subreddit is dedicated to those, women especially, who are interested in finding, cultivating, and sharing traditional lifestyles. Before you get started, please r | 11K | 131 | +129% | 31 | 72% | 84% | 13% | Yes |
| 155 | r/crossdressers_wives↗new-account friendly**If this is your first time here, please read the Community Rules for guidelines on posting and commenting. Thank you!** This is community for wives/ girlfriends/ friends to share experiences, stori | 11K | 74 | +95% | 37 | 46% | 77% | 10% | Yes |
| 156 | r/PolyFidelity↗A subreddit for those that practice or are interested in polyfidelity — a form of polyamory where all members agree to be sexually active only with other members of the group. | 10K | 54 | +51% | 33 | 55% | 75% | – | Yes |
| 157 | r/monogamy↗new-account friendlyA monogamously lead place of support for monogamous people. Monogamists of all genders, races, religions, and sexual orientations are welcome. Please keep in mind that this place functions primarily | 10K | 91 | +39% | 30 | 56% | 87% | 3% | Yes |
| 158 | r/SheraSeven↗A subreddit made to discuss Shera Seven videos and related topics, ran by supporters. | 9.3K | 220 | +69% | 26 | 93% | 76% | 72% | Yes |
| 159 | r/sexover60↗Old folk still fuck! | 9.2K | 52 | +81% | 62 | 22% | 78% | 17% | Yes |
| 160 | r/Romancescam↗Know a victim or are a victim of a romance scam? This is a subreddit that can help. Share your stories here with others in a similar situation. | 9.1K | 233 | +107% | 41 | 61% | 46% | Min. age/karma | Yes |
| 161 | r/Polygamy↗new-account friendlyWelcome to r/Polygamy. A home for the polygamous community and those curious about polygamy. | 8.5K | 70 | – | 33 | 36% | 66% | 15% | Yes |
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How this list is built
Subreddits are grouped into topics by what their posts are about; this list holds the dating group. We include subreddits that are safe for work and had at least 30 new posts in September 2026, about one a day.
Members is Reddit's subscriber count; growth compares it with a year earlier. Posts with a reply is the share of posts that got at least one comment over the last three months. Median author age and women are estimated from what authors say about themselves, and shown only when enough of them did. New-account posts removed is the share of posts from accounts younger than 7 days that were removed; communities at or below 17% are marked new-account friendly. Min. age/karma means the subreddit asks for a minimum account age or karma before you can post.
The list is rebuilt every month from public Reddit posts and comments. Data and CSV are free to reuse under CC BY 4.0 with a link to this page.
Dating subreddits: common questions
What is the biggest dating subreddit?
r/relationship_advice, with 15.9M members in September 2026. Next are r/dating (6.28M) and r/Tinder (5.97M).
Which dating subreddits are the most active?
By posts in September 2026: r/relationship_advice (23,342 posts), r/dating_advice (15,648 posts) and r/BreakUps (12,813 posts).
Which dating subreddits can a new account post in?
r/Marriage (15% of new-account posts removed), r/BreakUps (13% of new-account posts removed) and r/pickuplines (13% of new-account posts removed). They ask for no minimum karma or account age, and most posts from accounts under a week old stay up.
How often is this list updated?
Every month, when we rebuild our subreddit data. This version uses data for September 2026. Member counts come from Reddit; activity, removals and who writes come from public Reddit posts and comments.
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